Is masculinity superficial in the Mid West (could geography determine masculinity/femininity)?

First of all, women's minds work in reverse. The key to satisfying them is to NOT satisfy them. Don't even try because she'll raise her expectations high and make you do things that she REALLY doesn't even care about, she just wants to validate your desire for her so you won't cheat.... but then again if you give her too much compion, you're weak and boring.... so really there's no way to go. You'll inevitably be WRONG. But at least one of the wrongs (being a jerk) will get you laid.