My Friends asked me to go out, when I said Yes, they replied Gerald will like that, Gerald is married, and ..?

has flirted a little with me before..telling me I smell nice.etc. This time when we went out he gave me his cell # told me he wouldn't move if he had someone like me. Made a comment about hoping his wife would run off...wanting to tuck me in bed..laughing about it. Then my friend told me the next day..Gerald was just kidding... What do you think?? was he kidding???